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Big Bro looking for younger white brothers

Still looking around for younger (not older than 40, prefer much younger) white (sorry, my preference) guy or guys, that are into soft to medium bondage, BDSM.

I'm a Bear, and certainly, I believe blessed with fuller figure, even though I do have a very active lifestyle, and my hobby is rather physical which keeps me very busy with very little spare time, so please be mindful of that.
Use to play rugby, many years ago at school, thus the larger physical upper body and leg features!

I'm of eastern-European descent, born in what was western Europe! A result of the end of the WWII, with the rush of the communists in the 50's and early 60's into eastern-Europe, parents fled Europe! I've grown up in SA.

IF I may make a few NOTES gents, I have received many "Likes" and a few "Friend Requests", which is all great and well, cool so say the least, and a huge thanks for those who have, but there is a problem . . . .
There are so many profiles on this site, that not even the basics are filled in or completed, which makes the decision to subscribe or not to, hugely difficult. How do you, or anyone else expect to start some sort of communication with you, when one looks at a blank profile??
So please gents, fill in at least some of the basics - it's not rocket science, especially if you're going to initiate some sort of contact!!!
Subscribing to this site, even for a month is not "Chomp" change, it's costly!!!!

Secondly, if I may - I'm not here for pic swapping, if you need to see something private, share and share a-like in person is the prefer way.
Sending me certain body part pics, doesn't get me interested. I prefer a whole, or full height pic!

Not into endless, sexting, or one-line ping-pong mails. Should you wish to communicate, write something decent, besides just sending a simple "Hello" or sending a pointless automated texts or sending written one-liners. I won't respond to these types of mails!

Currently unsubscribed.
If you wish to subscribe for both, and it leads to at least two meetings in person, I'd happily refund you in person the costs involved.
PS Profile pic is NOT of me. The pics title is; "This is how guys should wear their pants!"
Don't forget that this site offers at least once a month open message evening! Please keep an eye on your e-mails, for the announcement thereof and please try and use that! Thanks

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Sex Preferences

Use condomsYes, Condoms only
I preferTop
I'm aBear, Chub, Sugar Daddy, Thug, Twink
OutStill in the closet
HIV StatusNegative

What are your cbt preferences?

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Slapping, Squeezing, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball stretcher, Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Sometimes

My Tickling Preferences

Favorite tickling objectHands, Feather, Pointy objects, Tissue


EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height5' 10" (178 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtNone, Other
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyConstruction / Craftsman
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleDraughtsmen / Publications

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
My perfect matcha younger (under 40 y.o) white guy/s who like submitting to Doms. I prefer guys with blond hair, blue eyes, and a toned body. A six-pack always gets my attention. You must like to be handled rough or softly, and definitely like to be dominated, while tied up, suspend from you wrists and or ankles . . .

Don't be shy. I would like to make this a "brotherly" friendship for regular sessions

SA and SL White guys only. No fems or drag queens. No "Clubbers" or druggies PLEASE.
As close as possible "normal' guy/s. NO time wasters or BS.
If you do contact me, you must have decided to commit and follow through. First timers welcome, but don't waste my time!

I get regularly tested for STD's & HIV status for employment requirements and I am clean. Please make sure you are adult about your status and you are clean!

One last item - guys, please Facial Hair for me is a no,no!!! No Goatee's, beards, ect! Facially you are clean shaven at all times!!!!
Our first dateDinner, chat, and if you get my attention maybe we take it futher

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Genital torture, Kidnapping, Needle play, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter waswell that depends solely on you! I am certainly going to do some of the work, but I expect that you also use your own initiative as well, and please don't for minute think that you are going to be unresponsive . . . . .
If your bo


FetishesMedical / Enema, Tickling, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isNot my thing
Anal sex isNot my thing
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationTrain, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Dressing room

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes